I’ve written on my profile that I’m a work in progress. I wasn’t trying to write something profound or catchy. I happen to believe it.
I think this is the point of our individual journeys. While there are core essentials we all have, our opinions and outlooks are informed and changed by what we learn and who we meet as we go.
It is also said that we are changed by what we teach.
The Roman philosopher Seneca is attributed with the proverb by teaching, we learn. Docendo discimus in Latin — if you roll that way.
Am I the only person who has noticed a worrying trend in the ‘day in the life’ vlogging space?
Yeah. Ok. You got me. Guilty! I have watched these videos once or twice. Sometimes. Not at all every evening. Much.
Earlier last year, after about a month of the first lockdown, late one night, I decided to click on a YouTube video titled with some version of ‘what I do in a day’. I was looking for validation, I guess. Perhaps escapism? I wanted to know if other people were feeling as anxious as I was.
Lockdown, shelter in…
It loves me, it loves me not.
Dear Craptacular Applicant Tracking System v. 666, a.k.a the ATS,
Why, in the name of Sweet Loki, can’t you get it right?
I remember the warm, golden days when a job hunter would see a job posted online and send a resume to an email that had a chance of being viewed by a living, breathing human.
This human would view the resume and assess its merits — or lack thereof — and decisions about the next steps would be made. You might get an email or even GASP! …
Dear Hiring Manager, a.k.a The One Who Got Away,
Things were going so well.
You responded to my overture of a cover letter. You asked if I wanted to meet in person.
I did. Indeed, I did. Thursday at 2 pm sounds lovely. See you then.
I found your building easily because I’m a dork who made sure to walk by it the night before. #interviewstealth
The weird dude sitting in (not next to) the large concrete planter outside the building, crushing the Ficus bush, was still there talking about the end of the world. He muttered that I was…
Not so long ago, I worked on cruise ships in Human Resources. One of the benefits I enjoyed was being able to walk through passenger areas onboard, and as a result, I often had the opportunity to speak with passengers.
My employee name tag helped. Some passengers love to try to get the skinny on what it’s like to work on a cruise ship. Bless.
Most of them were absolutely lovely. I met some fabulous people who were kind, respectful and interested in the world.
I also met people whose questions or unreasonable complaints really floored me. Just unbelievably dumb…
I acknowledge the title perhaps seems an insensitive statement. In no way do I mean to diminish the horrific losses we have faced this last year on so many levels.
However, please hear me out.
Unexpectedly, the Pandemic has been one of the best years of physical health some of us have had in ages, given that in many places, people had to wear a mask, and everyone was asked to be mindful of how their behaviour can impact others. People were encouraged to look out for each other.
A year ago last week, the Pandemic was declared, and many…
Have you ever had a moment you are sure will change the course of your life? I remember that moment in my life, and I hope it is one of many to come. Recognizing I was floundering and being open to alternative possibilities allowed me to pivot my career into a life-changing adventure.
Someone called my desk on a sunny Saturday afternoon because they were confident I’d be there. They were right. Although I had just put in my full work week, I was at the office. Again.
A series of terrible personal disappointments had led me to bury myself…
During an interview with The Wall Street Journal Magazine, comedian and The Daily Show host Trevor Noah was asked, “What’s the one piece of advice that changed your life?”
“Everything is helping you get to where you are trying to go to. If you put your focus and energy into something, it can get you to that place.”
— Trevor Noah
Everything is helping you.
This statement isn’t the same as saying “everything happens for a reason,” as if there is an inevitable purpose or plan for the more challenging things in life. I don’t personally believe this is the…
BFF. Buddy. Pal. Crony. Mate. Chum. Your person. Whatever name you give them, undoubtedly, friends make the journey through life richer.
According to clinical psychologist Dr. Andrea Bonior, Ph.D., author of The Friendship Fix: The Complete Guide to Choosing, Losing, and Keeping Up With Your Friends, having strong relationships can make you physically healthier, more emotionally stable, empathetic and resilient. The benefits of strong friendship connections are many.
The path may not always be smooth. While you might realize on some level that certain behaviours from a friend don’t feel right, spotting the traits of a toxic friendship can be…
“You should be far more concerned with your current trajectory than with your current results.”
- James Clear, Atomic Habits
Have you made your New Year’s resolutions yet?
I have not. For two good reasons:
2. I know, in the dark night of my soul, that I will likely not keep the resolution because it is too confining and overwhelming.
If you check the interwebs on this, the accepted statistic is that 80% of all New Year’s resolutions fail. There have been some studies done by researchers…